“R” = that’s just fucking Rude!!

A little while ago I introduced Y’all to “R”…..honestly, I flipped back and forth with him in trying to decide if he was in a committed relationship or not and what I ended up deciding was that I am not about to be his moral compass and if he is screwing around with his wife or girlfriend and lying to me about it then its on him!!

Finally..after 6 LONG weeks, I was medically released to once again have intercourse. I texted “R” to let him know and we exchanged a couple of texts back and forth about the possibility of meeting that day after work. “R” told me it was his turn to cook and he would need to leave at 5:30 to be home by 6 pm.  I asked him if he could swap with his step-daughter “C” and his response was the weakest fucking bullshit lie I have ever heard…”It’s really not “C” that gets pissy, it’s the boys, they kind of look forward to me making dinner”

I mean fucking seriously dude!! Bad enough that you are lying through your teeth but don’t insult my intelligence with your weak arse lies and think I am dumb enough to believe that shit!!  His grand kids are 7 and 9, he cooks for them every 2nd day and if it is true that your 7 and 9 year old grandsons will get pissy if their Mum cooks dinner instead of poppa then you are a dumb fuck for letting kids behave that way…..Supposedly it was also 6 weeks of no sex for him too and if that was the truth he would have called for fucking pizza for his grandsons and then been on his way to my place…..I was completely gobsmacked at this response and quite honestly did not know what to say so I suggested we leave it till our original plan of meeting at his RV the following week after I got home from Mardi Gras.

So I get home from Mardi Gras and the Tuesday evening I was supposed to go meet him in his RV after his grandsons had their dinner and were taken to their home…I thought long and hard about what I was going to do about “R”….I thought about having sex with him one last time….I mean seriously after 6 weeks of no intercourse I wanted some hard fast sex which is what he promised me but I honestly did not think I wanted it from him so decided I needed to break it off. Below is our text conversation word for word…..

“Jad” – Hi “R”, I just wanted to let you know I have decided not to come over to your RV tonight. You were open from the start and said you did not know if you could meet my dating requirements and while I really enjoyed your company and had so much fun but this past weekend  made me realize all the more that I need to find someone who has the availability to join me in weekend trips like the one I just did. I don’t want to keep being the 3rd wheel when I go out with Louise and MrT. I wish you nothing but the very best
Jad xoxo

“R” – Okay then

Seriously, that is all he said, I sent the message about 9:30 am and he responded almost instantly with that….It kind of made me feel so disposable even though it was me breaking it off with him but I decided I was not going to dwell on it.

Almost 12 hours later, at around 9 pm I got the follow message and then a further conversation ensued…..

“R” – Damn I hope you’re getting laid by better than me. Nuff said suppose..

“Jad” – Not getting laid by anyone “R”. I guess I just want more than sex which I know is probably an impossibility based on the circumstances.

“R” – Nothing is better than sum thing…? I’m a dumbass cause I fail to understand. I give..

I did not respond to his last message but then about 30 minutes later another message came through

“R” – Foolishness….you played me…

“Jad” – “R” what’s the deal, nobody played anyone. We had a great time together but I realized that you and I had different needs and priorities.

Then I got the “piece de resistance!!!”….The message to end all messages!!

“R” – Stop!!!! Nuff said. !!! End any and all contact. You are hereby notified to delete any evidence you have of our contact in its entirety, including and not limited to texts, emails, pics and anything usable in any future possibility of a case that may expose the unfortunate mistake made in my foolish decision to know you. Never contact me ever again!!!

OMG – seriously..what the FUCK!!….I wanted to respond to him, oh HOW badly I wanted to respond to him. SO many things I could have said to him starting with….why don’t  you go to fucking hell….But after some careful consideration I decided to abide by his wishes and never contact him again……

I was so fucking pissed at his childish and nasty response that I was very tempted to give him a little taste of his own “pure ugliness” by sending a little message via Facebook to his step daughter or the person I believe he is in a relationship with or I thought of posting pictures of us together on my Facebook page and tagging him in the photos…But I would like to think I am better than that, besides…he knows where I live which happens to be a “cabin in the woods” and I am not about to knowingly do something which may put myself at risk and if he can be so ugly by text I had not clue what he was capable of….So I did not respond to his text and did not send any Facebook messages or post any pics…………But….you know what they say!!!
“Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned”….Next year, when I am back in Australia I may just have to create an album in Facebook showing ALL of my adventures during my last year in the United States….and really who’s not to say that some photos of my flying adventure with “R” might just end up in that album….and y’all know how I like to tag my photos, its kind of an anal OCD thing of mine!!!

 

 

 

 

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